Ideally, you should have such a modest temperament that people should not hesitate to correct you. Generally people have such rigid temperaments that whenever they are positively criticized, they show a very stubborn reaction which draws people away from them. Having such a disposition is most likely to make one suffer from many ill personality traits. Therefore, it is advised that in order to have a constructive personality, one should be able to adhere to the opinions and recommendations of their well wishers. If someone points out a negative trait in your character and you are sure that you do not posses it then clarify your stance in a humble and optimistic manner. You should check your opinions and comments before making them public as awareness does not have a specific direction to it. Regarding this aspect, the Glorious Quraan says: “erase the bad and evil with goodness.”  (Najiullah – Attock)